People also think that they’re reputation will go do if they do something that is out of the ordinary for their specific group of people. I noticed that this happens a lot in schools, just walking down the hall I can hear all the different cliques and groups talking about how they wouldn’t never be caught dead doing something the group down the hall does. But think about this, were all humans’ right? And if the group is just down the hall from you chances are they’re the same age as you, they go through all the stresses of everyday high school life just like you do and yet THEY are losers for expressing how they are?
I have never been popular. Ever and yes I have been guilty of bashing other groups that were less popular than myself because I thought that it would put me on top quicker. I thought that me being rude would put me on top quicker than me being nice to them. But then I grew up.
I realized that if you bash another group or a specific person you’re not doing any good. You don’t get higher up any quicker because once you’re on the bottom you’re stuck there. Being nice or mean has nothing to do with it, we all walk into kindergarten with our Barbie’s and action figures scared as hell just wanting to find someone else to play with and we get ranked. It’s decided on day one who will survive and who won’t. Bashing others does NOTHING for you. It only causes negative effects on the other person. Think about this, you don’t like being put down, called dirty or ugly or gay so why do it to someone else?
IT’S SICKENING!
When I hear people making fun of others, especially those who are really nice and do nothing to deserve getting made fun as they did nothing wrong yet people constantly ridicule them and pick on them day by day… the victim doesn’t deserve that so why do it?
If you have something wrong with you don’t take it out on someone else, simply go up to that person and talk to them, I bet you a hundred bucks the person you make fun of can help you more than anything!
So next time you go to bash someone think of the consequences, think of how that person doesn’t deserve to be made fun of for anything and try talking about it before you tear someone down. Think about what you’re doing before you do it.
I agree, with all your blogs now lol.
ReplyDeletethis one was like REALLY insightful and honest, i loved it.
and no one can disagree with this, we are ALL guilty of "chirping" someone for being out of the norm or being different, but no one's the same, in reality we're all different, and each of us is simply trying to find a place in this world, bullying doesn't help nor solve anything
cant wait to read more :)